
"Stay Together For The Kids"
Blink 182
It's hard to wake up, when the shades have been pulled shut
This house is haunted, it's so pathetic, it makes no sense at all
I'm ripe with things to say, the words rot and fall away
What stupid poem could fix this home, I'd read it every day
So here's your holiday, hope you enjoy this time, you gave it all away.
It was mine, so when you're dead and gone, will you remember this night?
Twenty years now lost. It's not right.
Their anger hurts my ears, been running strong for seven years
Rather then fix the problems, they never solve them, it makes no sense
I see them everyday, we get along so why can't they?
If this is what he wants, and it's what she wants, then why is there so much pain?
So here's your holiday, hope you enjoy this time, you gave it all away.
It was mine, so when you're dead and gone, will you remember this night?
Twenty years now lost. It's not right.
So here's your holiday, hope you enjoy this time, you gave it all away.
It was mine, so when you're dead and gone, will you remember this night?
Twenty years now lost. It's not right.
It's not right.
It's not right.
It's not right.
Whenever I hear this song, I don't know whether to feel pissed off at the parents or to commend them for "staying together for the kids". This song was sung by a band which I thought was unlikely to make a song like this, but still a band I am a big fan of. Since Blink 182, in my eyes, is a band that has the devil-may-care attitude and the ones who could most probably get away with murder. But surprise, surprise, they can compare notes with issues like this.
I have a friend who is in the same situation as the entity in the song. She's definitely a friend, she's not me, since she's an only child and I'm the middle child (complete with middle child syndrome...)! Moving on, my friend is already expressing how painful it is for her knowing that her parents aren't happy staying together. According to her, her parents want to stay together so that she wouldn't have to go through a life of having separated parents, and well we all know how a big a deal that situation is. I'm not a big fan of separation, but what's the use of staying together if they still fight?
Their anger hurts my ears, been running strong for seven years. Rather then fix the problems, they never solve them, it makes no sense. I see them everyday, we get along so why can't they? If this is what he wants, and it's what she wants, then why is there so much pain?
No matter how sad and painful this song can be, it's still one of my favorites. I guess its honesty is part of its charm. There aren't any unfathomable words, but stringed together the words look intricate, also a lot of kids can relate to it and I like punk. Through this song, I feel as if I've gone through this, but thank goodness, I haven't. Whoever's going through this though, has all my prayers and my empathy which is the only thing I can do right now.
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